Sure you're nice - most people are. So what?
This quality is one that reflects your
feeling
that you're a man worth knowing and you
deserve
women's attention. But do you really believe
that women pay attention to what you think
you
deserve?
Being nice is not enough. Okay, fine, you're
nice,
but
you also need to be interesting.
Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates
to wimp/dweeb
in too many people's minds.
Believe me: you don't have to be a jerk to
attract women!
As a matter of fact, women did not like jerks
or
aggressive men. They are attracted by
challenging,
interesting guys. That's all. You can be
interesting, challenging and still a nice
man. Be
yourself but keep in mind these significant
things that can make the difference between a
regular nice guy and a successful one:
1. Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the
quickest and easiest way I've ever heard to
let a
woman know that YOU are the guy she should be
pursuing is to let women know you are successful
with women.
Be a nice guy, but one that is
desirable. :)
2. The MOST EFFECTIVE way to approach a woman
and
spark her attraction for you is giving her a
COMPLIMENT on her looks. This can be suicidal
if
done wrong... but just find something at her
what
you really think is special, different about
her.
You give attention, and you will get
attention in
return!
3. Not being aggressive doesn't mean that you
have to wait for madam perfection to drop
into
your lap (which you as a "nice guy"
deserve by
definition, of course). You have to take some
initiative. BE SELF-CONFIDENT (but not really
cocky) and show some honest interest in
something
about a woman.
4. The best selling genre of books in the
world
is romance novels... because women LOVE
romance.
So don't talk about sport for God seek! If you
are not the type of man that reads poetry or
is
able to talk about moon or about the smell of
burned tree leafs, don't do it. You'll look
unnatural. But taking your date in a romantic
place, offering her a nice flower, enjoying
some
good music or even touching her hand in a
delicate way is very romantic.
5. And don't talk only about you. You want
her to
listen to you? Then first listen carefully to
her
when she needs to be heard. The most
effective
way to be interesting is asking questions
and…
listens. Only try and you'll see. :)
Keep in mind that often (not always, but very
often) when a woman tells you about a problem
she'
s having, she's not looking to you for the
solution.
What? That doesn't make sense?
What
she's often looking for is comfort and
reassurance and knowing that YOU'RE THERE.
6. One of the most important things in dating
is
to approach women that are interested in
dating
and women that seem to be interested in you.
Don'
t try to sell candies to someone that is
looking
for peanuts and don't waste your time with
women
that are still affected by their ex long term
relationships. You don't want to be just a
shoulder to cry?
You only live once, so live your life well!
Hi. I’m Sana ur Rehman Designer of This Blog. I’m CEO/Founder of Pak Zest. I’m Creative Art Director, Web Designer, UI/UX Designer, Interaction Designer, Industrial Designer, Web Developer, Business Enthusiast, StartUp Enthusiast, Speaker, Writer and Photographer. Inspired to make things looks better.
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