If you are looking for love and marriage
abroad, it is very simple to get it right, believe me! There are thousands of
honest, sincere women who will be genuinely interested in YOU!
But after you are meeting a nice girl that
seems to be right for you make sure the person you are talking to is FOR REAL.
Frankly, looking for a partner abroad is not
any different than any other search - search for a house, a second-hand car, or
whatsoever, in one simple yet important detail: there will always be people
that will try to take advantage of you.
The perception that you have built about
dating scams can make you be cautious and suspicious all the time! That is even
worse. Chances are you will make the same mistakes as other guys and destroy
what was a really good and honest relationship - just because of being paranoid
about scammers.
But what if I tell you that there are some
specific signs that can make you solve
the enigma of sincerity in your relationship and find out that the person you
were corresponding with is not who she said she is?
1. Money is a key object to know a scam. At
some point she begins to ask for money, frequently asking that it be
transferred through wire services. She commonly states that the money is needed
to help resolve a family tragedy or arrange for a trip to the United States. A
copy of a fraudulent U.S. visa is sometimes attached to prove good intentions.
Beside this, there are other subtle signs
that can make you be suspicious from the first e-mails she is sending you.
2. The most prominent is the fact that
scammers don't really read your letters. They don't remember what you have
written - actually, they don't relate to the content of your letters at all. They
don't answer your questions.
3. Things move very fast, and she falls in
love with you within 1-5 letters. Those letters she send to you could be sent
to anybody: "her" letters are pure monologue that becomes more and
more obsessed with "her love" to you and her desire to be together
with you despite of everything that separates you.
4. She doesn't want to provide you with her
phone number pretending that she doesn't have a phone or that she didn't speak
English. Paper can bear anything, you know that. But even phone conversation
can give you more clues of what's really going on (though men usually tend to
misinterpret subtle signs excusing them by the language barrier).
5. Your name usually appears only once, or
does not appear at all in the correspondence she is sending to you. She uses
"darling", "sweetheart", "my love" and so on
instead, because she is probably afraid not to mix the names of her victims or
is sending the same messages to all of them only changing the names.
6. She lets you know from the very beginning
that she is a student or how little she earns, including the size of her salary
even though you never asked about it. But she never asks about the state of
your finances - neither uses the word "financially secure" in her description
of the prospective partner.
7. She writes you almost every day (keeps
sending you photos even if you did not ask for) and in her letters she talks a
lot about trust, honesty and sincerity. :)
So of course you must be aware of the fact
that there are some individuals out there who may try to extract from you some
amounts in cash, but remember that not all pretty girls you are meeting online
are swindlers. Many men who were looking for a foreign wife, and met a
wonderful girl without problems, are very surprised to find information about
scams - they did not know that such a thing exists!
It is you who takes the choice and the risk.
Enjoy but don't get fooled.
Hi. I’m Sana ur Rehman Designer of This Blog. I’m CEO/Founder of Pak Zest. I’m Creative Art Director, Web Designer, UI/UX Designer, Interaction Designer, Industrial Designer, Web Developer, Business Enthusiast, StartUp Enthusiast, Speaker, Writer and Photographer. Inspired to make things looks better.
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